Tip: Understanding Women
Men are naturally competitive… especially with other men. We all know that. Women are not. We only become “competitive” with other women… when it comes to men’s attention. And that about sums it up.
Women will not be pushed into a competition especially by the people they love. And we will never respond to a push manifested by negative reinforcement.
Men should realize using this behavior to get women to respond or do something differently will never work.
I have heard a lot of men brag about not allowing other men to one-up them. Men would be more likely driven by another man being better or stronger or wiser. So most (men) do the same to women.. especially those they love, to drive them to succeed… as if somehow the success or failure is the men’s own.
What actually happens? The more your father or your boyfriend or your husband tells you that you have never done anything good, or that you cant sing, or that you cant dance as good as your opponent, or that you will never understand Recognised Investment Exchange or what Risk Trade is all about… the more you are likely to lose focus and prove their statements true.
What women are not.. stupid. We know who we are and what we can do. Telling us we cant do something will not create a force inside us that will make us be superman and be who you want us to be.
And telling us you dont believe in us will not make us better… it will only make us lose hope. Because if the one person you knew loved you told you they did not believe in you… what else is there for you? Certainly “better” will just not cut it.
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whoah, dats deep…
@JustFriendz
- deep ka dyan… gusto mo tagalugin ko? huwawawa… :P peace!
Tip: Understanding Women…
Men are naturally competitive… especially with other men. We all know that. Women are not. We only become â€competitive†with other women… when it comes to men’s attention. And that about sums it up. Women will not be pushed into a competition…
i remember a joke that goes something like:
if 2 male strangers meet in a party wearing the exact same outfit, they will probably end up as friends.
but if 2 female strangers meet in a party wearing the same exact outfit, they will snob and outdo and probably fight each other.
competitive nga ang mga babae. hehe
@Aj
- you said it! I can totally relate… but not about the fighting part but about the outdoing part… dont you just love women?
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